To love each other with open eyes

Хорхе Букай отново ни изненадва, предлагайки този път на вниманието ни... роман, в който основната тема е любовта и изграждането на взаимоотношенията в една двойка.
Many people make the mistake of looking for a partner as a means to solve their own problems. They think that an intimate relationship will cure them of their anguish, their boredom, their lack of meaning in life.
They expect the couple to fill the void in them.
What a terrible mistake!
When I choose a partner with such expectations, I inevitably end up hating the person who doesn't give me what I expected.
And after? Then maybe I'll look for a new one, and a new one, and a new one... Or decide to spend my life complaining about fate.
Therefore, when difficulties arise in relationships, we must first realize that they are an integral part of the path to love. The solution lies in letting go of the illusion of the perfect couple in which there are no conflicts and the partners are eternally in love.
This is the true meaning of the couple: not salvation, but the encounter. Or rather the encounters.
Me with you.
You with me.
Me with myself.
You with yourself.
We with the world.